Egress routing solution with Istio, using two Envoy listeners, but the second is internal. Ref: https://github.com/istio/istio.io/issues/14126

egress-sni-double-listener-internal.yaml

# Use-case: have a set of (possibly wildcard) external target hostnames 
# that are approached with TLS (HTTPS) by mesh applications. Traffic towards
# these targets are routed through an egress gateway with the mesh mTLS.
# Egress gateway checks the hostname and if allowed, dynamically forwards the
# traffic to the exact destination that is in the SNI property.
#
# This version uses an internal listener to dispatch the final destination
# from the application traffic.
# Istio release independent.

apiVersion: v1
kind: Service
metadata:
  name: egressgateway
  namespace: istio-egress
spec:
  type: ClusterIP
  selector:
    istio: egressgateway
  ports:
  - port: 443
    name: tls-egress
    targetPort: 8443
---
apiVersion: apps/v1
kind: Deployment
metadata:
  name: istio-egressgateway
  namespace: istio-egress
spec:
  selector:
    matchLabels:
      istio: egressgateway
  template:
    metadata:
      annotations:
        inject.istio.io/templates: gateway
      labels:
        istio: egressgateway
        sidecar.istio.io/inject: "true"
    spec:
      containers:
      - name: istio-proxy
        image: auto # The image will automatically update each time the pod starts.
        securityContext:
          capabilities:
            drop:
            - ALL
          runAsUser: 1337
          runAsGroup: 1337
---
# Set up roles to allow reading credentials for TLS
apiVersion: rbac.authorization.k8s.io/v1
kind: Role
metadata:
  name: istio-egressgateway-sds
  namespace: istio-egress
rules:
- apiGroups: [""]
  resources: ["secrets"]
  verbs: ["get", "watch", "list"]
- apiGroups:
  - security.openshift.io
  resourceNames:
  - anyuid
  resources:
  - securitycontextconstraints
  verbs:
  - use
---
apiVersion: rbac.authorization.k8s.io/v1
kind: RoleBinding
metadata:
  name: istio-egressgateway-sds
  namespace: istio-egress
roleRef:
  apiGroup: rbac.authorization.k8s.io
  kind: Role
  name: istio-egressgateway-sds
subjects:
- kind: ServiceAccount
  name: default
---
apiVersion: v1
kind: List
items:
  - apiVersion: networking.istio.io/v1alpha3
    kind: Gateway
    metadata:
      name: egressgateway
      namespace: istio-system
    spec:
      selector:
        istio: egressgateway
      servers:
      - port:
          number: 8443
          name: tls-egress
          protocol: TLS
        hosts: 
          - "*"
        tls:
          mode: ISTIO_MUTUAL
  - apiVersion: networking.istio.io/v1alpha3
    kind: VirtualService
    metadata:
      name: direct-wildcard-through-egress-gateway
      namespace: istio-system
    spec:
      hosts:
        - "*.foo.com"
      gateways:
      - mesh
      tls:
      - match:
        - gateways:
          - mesh
          port: 443
          sniHosts: 
            - "*.foo.com"
        route:
        - destination:
            host: egressgateway.istio-egress.svc.cluster.local
            subset: wildcard
  - apiVersion: networking.istio.io/v1alpha3
    kind: VirtualService
    metadata:
      name: direct-wildcard-through-egress-gateway2
      namespace: istio-system
    spec:
      hosts:
        - "*" # not effective, but necessary
      gateways:
      - egressgateway
      tcp:
      - match:
        - gateways:
          - egressgateway
          port: 8443
        route:
        - destination:
            host: "dummy.local"
          weight: 100
  - apiVersion: networking.istio.io/v1alpha3
    kind: DestinationRule
    metadata:
      name: egressgateway
      namespace: istio-system
    spec:
      host: egressgateway.istio-egress.svc.cluster.local
      subsets:
      - name: wildcard
      trafficPolicy:
        tls:
          mode: ISTIO_MUTUAL
  - apiVersion: networking.istio.io/v1alpha3
    kind: ServiceEntry
    metadata:
      name: wildcard
      namespace: istio-system
    spec:
      hosts: 
        - "*.foo.com"
      ports:
      - number: 443
        name: tls
        protocol: TLS
  - apiVersion: telemetry.istio.io/v1alpha1
    kind: Telemetry
    metadata:
      name: mesh-default
      namespace: istio-system
    spec:
      accessLogging:
        - providers:
          - name: envoy
  - apiVersion: networking.istio.io/v1alpha3
    kind: EnvoyFilter
    metadata:
      name: sni-magic
      namespace: istio-system
    spec:
      configPatches:
      - applyTo: CLUSTER
        match:
          context: GATEWAY
        patch:
          operation: ADD
          value:
            name: sni_cluster
            load_assignment:
              cluster_name: sni_cluster
              endpoints:
              - lb_endpoints:
                - endpoint:
                    address:
                      envoy_internal_address:
                        server_listener_name: sni_listener
      - applyTo: CLUSTER
        match:
          context: GATEWAY
        patch:
          operation: ADD
          value:
            name: dynamic_forward_proxy_cluster
            lb_policy: CLUSTER_PROVIDED
            cluster_type:
              name: envoy.clusters.dynamic_forward_proxy
              typed_config:
                "@type": type.googleapis.com/envoy.extensions.clusters.dynamic_forward_proxy.v3.ClusterConfig
                dns_cache_config:
                  name: dynamic_forward_proxy_cache_config
                  dns_lookup_family: V4_ONLY

      - applyTo: LISTENER
        match:
          context: GATEWAY
        patch:
          operation: ADD
          value:
            name: sni_listener
            internal_listener: {}
            listener_filters:
            - name: envoy.filters.listener.tls_inspector
              typed_config:
                "@type": type.googleapis.com/envoy.extensions.filters.listener.tls_inspector.v3.TlsInspector

            filter_chains:
            - filter_chain_match:
                server_names:
                - "*.foo.com"
              filters:
                - name: envoy.filters.network.sni_dynamic_forward_proxy
                  typed_config:
                    "@type": type.googleapis.com/envoy.extensions.filters.network.sni_dynamic_forward_proxy.v3.FilterConfig
                    port_value: 443
                    dns_cache_config:
                      name: dynamic_forward_proxy_cache_config
                      dns_lookup_family: V4_ONLY
                - name: envoy.tcp_proxy
                  typed_config:
                    "@type": type.googleapis.com/envoy.extensions.filters.network.tcp_proxy.v3.TcpProxy
                    stat_prefix: tcp
                    cluster: dynamic_forward_proxy_cluster
                    access_log:
                    - name: envoy.access_loggers.file
                      typed_config:
                        "@type": type.googleapis.com/envoy.extensions.access_loggers.file.v3.FileAccessLog
                        path: "/dev/stdout"
                        log_format:
                          text_format_source:
                            inline_string: '[%START_TIME%] "%REQ(:METHOD)% %REQ(X-ENVOY-ORIGINAL-PATH?:PATH)%
                              %PROTOCOL%" %RESPONSE_CODE% %RESPONSE_FLAGS% %RESPONSE_CODE_DETAILS% %CONNECTION_TERMINATION_DETAILS%
                              "%UPSTREAM_TRANSPORT_FAILURE_REASON%" %BYTES_RECEIVED% %BYTES_SENT% %DURATION%
                              %RESP(X-ENVOY-UPSTREAM-SERVICE-TIME)% "%REQ(X-FORWARDED-FOR)%" "%REQ(USER-AGENT)%"
                              "%REQ(X-REQUEST-ID)%" "%REQ(:AUTHORITY)%" "%UPSTREAM_HOST%" %UPSTREAM_CLUSTER%
                              %UPSTREAM_LOCAL_ADDRESS% %DOWNSTREAM_LOCAL_ADDRESS% %DOWNSTREAM_REMOTE_ADDRESS%
                              %REQUESTED_SERVER_NAME% %ROUTE_NAME%

                              '
      - applyTo: NETWORK_FILTER
        match:
          context: GATEWAY
          listener:
            filterChain:
              filter:
                name: "envoy.filters.network.tcp_proxy"
        patch:
          operation: MERGE
          value:
            name: envoy.tcp_proxy
            typed_config:
              "@type": type.googleapis.com/envoy.extensions.filters.network.tcp_proxy.v3.TcpProxy
              stat_prefix: tcp
              cluster: sni_cluster