index.php

<?php
class AIGetElementSettings {

	public function __construct( $postid, $widget_id, $widget_type ) {
		$this->postid = $postid;
		$this->widget_id = $widget_id;
		$this->widget_type = $widget_type;
		$this->widget = null;
		$this->parse();
	}
	
	public function get_settings () {
		$widget = $this->elementor()->elements_manager->create_element_instance( $this->widget );
		return $widget->get_settings_for_display();
	}

   public function elementor(){
		return Elementor\Plugin::$instance;
	}
	
	private function parse() {
		$data = $this->read_data();
		$this->parse_options( $data );
	}
	
	private function read_data() {
		return $this->elementor()->documents->get( $this->postid )->get_elements_data();
	}
	
	private function parse_options($data) {
		if ( ! is_array( $data ) || empty( $data ) ) {
			return;
		}		
	
		foreach ( $data as $item ) {
			if( empty( $item ) ){
				continue;
			}
			
			if ( 'section' === $item['elType'] || 'column' === $item['elType'] ) {
				$this->parse_options( $item['elements'] );
			} else {
				$this->parse_options_simple( $item );
			}
		}
	}
	
	private function parse_options_simple( $item ) {
		if ( $item['id'] === $this->widget_id && $item['widgetType'] === $this->widget_type ) {
			$this->widget = $item;
		}
	}
}

add_action( 'elementor/init', function() {
   $widget = new AIGetElementSettings( 21361, '7g12w74', 'frymo-contact-form' ); 
   $settings = $widget->get_settings();
   error_log( "settings\n" . print_r( $settings, true ) . "\n" );
}, 100 );